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Sophie Longmire Sophie Longmire

Leading After Loss - Chris Stevenson

This is the first article in our ‘Leading After Loss’ series, where we are interviewing people who have had interesting and successful careers, whilst also dealing with the loss of one or both parents.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

Untangling grief - Making Room for Relief 

Welcome to the next instalment of our ‘untangling grief’ series, where we delve into some of the more uncomfortable feelings that may arise as a result of our grief. These are the ones no one speaks about and perhaps are a little more taboo. This time, we are talking about feeling a sense of relief after someone dies.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

Navigating Grief: dating while grieving

Dating after a loss can feel like you're carrying an invisible weight, like a secret grenade that could explode at any moment. You might worry about your emotions coming up unexpectedly, leaving you feeling vulnerable and unsure how to explain them. It can also be hard to know how much to share or if you're ready to open up to someone new….

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Harry Finch Harry Finch

Embracing fatherhood after loss

During his extended paternity leave, our trustee Harry pondered a question: "Does fatherhood feel like healing after losing his dad?" This prompted him to reflect deeply on his grief journey since welcoming his own daughter.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

Supporting the parent left behind.

When we lose a parent, there can often be a shift in dynamics among other family members. Naturally, a gap forms - a space your person once occupied - that came with habits, rituals, and responsibilities that are now trying to be filled by other people…

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Sophie Longmire Sophie Longmire

Josh’s Story - Madrid Marathon

We’re sharing Josh’s story as he is running Madrid Marathon in April and fundraising for It’s Time! He is running in memory of his dad and shares his reflections on his journey with grief.

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Sophie Longmire Sophie Longmire

Montana’s Story

Montana shares her story of losing her dad in 2023. She reflects on her experience of grief, as well as the love she grew up around and how this has impacted her view on life.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

Untangling grief - anger

Throughout this new mini-series at It’s Time, we are tackling some of the more challenging sides of grief. Those feelings that perhaps we’re embarrassed to admit, or fill us with confusion as to why we feel them. Although we’re told that any feelings are valid when you’re grieving, sometimes it can be helpful to dive into them a little more, in order to understand ourselves and our grief better.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

Looking after your mental health at university

Being at University is a time like no other. For many of us, it signifies our first taste of ‘freedom’ away from the comforts (and confines) of our hometowns, and the beginning of some resemblance of adult life. While it is a time to embrace the lack of responsibility and routine, university can also be a very isolating place when you’re struggling with your mental health.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

What Netflix’s ONE DAY can teach us about grief.

Based on the 2009 novel by David Nicholls of the same name, One Day was made into a film in 2011 starring Anne Hathaway, before Netflix safely delivered it to our screens in February 2024, to fill the Normal People shaped hole in our hearts….

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

The Elephant in the Office: Why We Need to Talk About Grief at Work

Although grief can and will be experienced by everyone at some point, it can rarely be left at the office door. It can feel like an untouchable topic in a professional environment - too personal to bring to work but also too all-consuming to suppress and ignore all day. It’s the elephant in the office.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

Reconnecting and rediscovering 

When I was young, I loved nothing more than looking to the future. What would I become? Who would I be? The world was full of endless opportunities.The future was exciting. But after losing a parent, the world can feel more hostile. Life can feel colder and more harsh.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

New Year, same grief

New Year’s can feel like a blank slate, but when you’re grieving, you may not have the excitement or enthusiasm to start afresh in new and exciting ways. You may just want to carry your feelings through, really feel them, and survive another day.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

The fear of ‘feeling better’

‘When he’d died, I’d been so sad I’d worried I’d never feel better. Now I wished I was sadder again, because feeling nothing made me worry I was broken.’ - Freya Bromley, The Tidal Year.

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Katie Ingles Katie Ingles

Navigating grief and going home from university 

After losing a parent, being away at university can feel like welcome relief from many reminders and situations that can be overwhelming when you’re grieving. Life when you’re studying is more focused on socialising, studying, and desperately trying to make that last £10 in your account last the rest of the month, rather than death and grief.

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