Reflections and experiences of grief
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10 things I wish I knew after my Mum died
Our chair Dave, delves into things he wish he knew at the beginning of his grief journey.
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Embracing fatherhood after loss
During his extended paternity leave, our trustee Harry pondered a question: "Does fatherhood feel like healing after losing his dad?"
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Secondary Grief
‘when you attach meaning to a date or experience, and you go through that feeling of loss all over again.’
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There Is No ‘Easy’ Way to Lose Someone
Rebecca delves into the question ‘is really a preferable way to lose a parent?’
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Press Pause
In this post Rebecca reflects on the feeling of needing a ‘pause button’ and how it is okay to take time out when you’re grieving.
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Becoming a different version of yourself after grief
In this post, Alice, discusses the year abroad she embarked on after her dad passed away.
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Loss and Other People
Ben, talks through the differences in those who empathise and those who sympathise with loss and why you need both types of people.
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Guilt-free grief?
We lose our way of life before their death. Guilt is often quick to strike and can strip us of the joy we once had.
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Post Traumatic Growth, a different perspective
David and Libby discuss the theory of post traumatic growth and their experiences.
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Release of emotion
‘When it comes to emotion driven by grief, we can somehow be completely betrayed by our reactions.’
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A letter to my 27 year old self
Nia lost her dad at 27 and in this post she delves into things she wished she’d known and things she’s learnt since.
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Grief, Summer and Comparison
In this blog post, Katie looks into the pressure we can feel as summer rolls around and how this can be difficult when you’re grieving.
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Processing Guilt
In this post, Ben, talks about the guilt he felt after his dad passed away. Particularly around his relationship with his mother.
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Same pain, different perspectives
Ben explores the differences in his relationships between him and his parents and how this changed after losing his father suddenly.
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Making Room for Relief
Relief can be a difficult feeling and often one that comes with guilt but it is also very common and not something to be ashamed of.
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Coping with the Loss of a Parent Despite a Strained Relationship
Coping with the loss of a parent is incredibly tough, and it becomes even more complex when you've had a strained relationship.
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Reconnecting and rediscovering
“The future was exciting. But after losing a parent, the world can feel more hostile. Life can feel colder and more harsh.”
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The fear of ‘feeling better’
‘When he’d died, I’d been so sad I’d worried I’d never feel better.’ - Freya Bromley, The Tidal Year.
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Embracing Resilience
As a young person, life seems to be in a constant state of flux at all times. Adding grief on top can be hard to deal with.
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15 things no one tells you when you lose a parent suddenly
In this post Nia reflects on all the things she wasn’t expecting when she lost her dad suddenly at 27.
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The Unspoken Truth: Losing a parent now is also losing a future parent
In this post Dr Marianne Trent discusses the loss of a parent and the secondary losses you face.