Reflections and experiences of grief

  • 10 things I wish I knew after my Mum died

    Our chair Dave, delves into things he wish he knew at the beginning of his grief journey.

  • Embracing fatherhood after loss

    During his extended paternity leave, our trustee Harry pondered a question: "Does fatherhood feel like healing after losing his dad?"

  • Secondary Grief

    ‘when you attach meaning to a date or experience, and you go through that feeling of loss all over again.’

  • There Is No ‘Easy’ Way to Lose Someone

    Rebecca delves into the question ‘is really a preferable way to lose a parent?’

  • Press Pause

    In this post Rebecca reflects on the feeling of needing a ‘pause button’ and how it is okay to take time out when you’re grieving.

  • Becoming a different version of yourself after grief

    In this post, Alice, discusses the year abroad she embarked on after her dad passed away.

  • Loss and Other People

    Ben, talks through the differences in those who empathise and those who sympathise with loss and why you need both types of people.

  • Guilt-free grief?

    We lose our way of life before their death. Guilt is often quick to strike and can strip us of the joy we once had.

  • Post Traumatic Growth, a different perspective

    David and Libby discuss the theory of post traumatic growth and their experiences.

  • Release of emotion

    ‘When it comes to emotion driven by grief, we can somehow be completely betrayed by our reactions.’

  • A letter to my 27 year old self

    Nia lost her dad at 27 and in this post she delves into things she wished she’d known and things she’s learnt since.

  • Grief, Summer and Comparison

    In this blog post, Katie looks into the pressure we can feel as summer rolls around and how this can be difficult when you’re grieving.

  • Processing Guilt

    In this post, Ben, talks about the guilt he felt after his dad passed away. Particularly around his relationship with his mother.

  • Same pain, different perspectives

    Ben explores the differences in his relationships between him and his parents and how this changed after losing his father suddenly.


  • Making Room for Relief

    Relief can be a difficult feeling and often one that comes with guilt but it is also very common and not something to be ashamed of.

  • Coping with the Loss of a Parent Despite a Strained Relationship

    Coping with the loss of a parent is incredibly tough, and it becomes even more complex when you've had a strained relationship.

  • Reconnecting and rediscovering

    “The future was exciting. But after losing a parent, the world can feel more hostile. Life can feel colder and more harsh.”

  • The fear of ‘feeling better’

    ‘When he’d died, I’d been so sad I’d worried I’d never feel better.’ - Freya Bromley, The Tidal Year.

  • Embracing Resilience

    As a young person, life seems to be in a constant state of flux at all times. Adding grief on top can be hard to deal with.

  • 15 things no one tells you when you lose a parent suddenly

    In this post Nia reflects on all the things she wasn’t expecting when she lost her dad suddenly at 27.

  • The Unspoken Truth: Losing a parent now is also losing a future parent

    In this post Dr Marianne Trent discusses the loss of a parent and the secondary losses you face.